A sharing from Judson:
I do not know why but I just feel the urge to share my random thought with you today.
Have you ever felt pain before? Is pain really THAT painful? In my opinion, the anticipation of pain is often more painful than pain itself. Remember the times when you were in school queuing up and waiting for your turn to take your jab, wasn’t the wait more painful than then the actual injection?
I can still remember very clearly the incident when my dog Gogo pass away at the age of 12 years old due to stomach twist (the same “illness” that happened to the dog in the movie Marley and Me). It is so painful to lose someone we loved so much. The moment before her death was so much more painful than her death itself.
In life, we often face painful and difficult moments. Ups and downs but all I can summarize about life is “Life goes on”. This may sound pretty mundane but its true that life just goes on.
When we are facing set backs, there are often nothing much we could do but look into the eyes our failures, take a deep breathe and move on. It’s often useless to ponder upon a problem that had already happened. Worrying is like crying over spilled milk.
Therefore, you shouldn’t worry so much as worrying would not help you solve any problems.
Most problems in life can be resolved. My personal greatest fear is the fear of losing those that I hold dear in my life. I am learning everyday to appreciate those around me while they are around.
It is too late to appreciate someone after they had left you. Let them know how precious they are to you today!
Ps. I find it almost funny to sometimes see people who do not appreciate their loved yet held a grand funeral for them after they passed away.
Do you agree with me?
